Another insane few months in paradise?

I know I promised to keep my blog regular (sounds somewhat intestinal, but needn't be), but I'm sorry, it just can't be done. Even as I write this I have a pretty good idea that it'll never get finished and published today, perhaps never, for the following reasons:

1. There is quite a lot to say, and I am inclined to ramble and get distracted easily (as you can see)

2. There are lots of photos to find (and my 'photos to be sorted folder' contains nearly 14 gig of crap to sort through)

3. V could explode at any moment which means the next time I'll get a few hours free to indulge myself in blogging could be late spring...2012

So I'll try not to deviate or repeat myself. Fat chance.

PS Of course, it's a couple of days later, and in the car taking the boyz to school I had a brain-wave...why not write a para or two every other days and just publish?...forget making it look pretty, spell-ckecking...might try and get everything I wrote yesterday ready, publish and be damned....

Hospitals are rubbish. Doctors are lazy. Nurses are useless.

I generalise of course. If you are nurse, or a doctor, or a hospital, I probably don't mean you. If on the other hand, you live or work in the area of Poggibonsi, then your chances of getting caught in the crossfire are increasing. And if you happen to work at Poggi hospital, don't come anywhere near me as I may just stove your head in for the fun of it, even if you work in the café. It wouldn't do much for you (especially after V has jumped up and down on your life-less carcass a few times), I know, but we would feel a whole lot better. Actually, that would be bliss. Any volunteers?

As we all know, V is expecting. She's due quite soon now and we have a preliminary date for the caesarean of 19^th October. Our GP here recommended that we go to Poggibonsi hospital because their obs & gynae (sp?) department is supposed to be one of the best in Italy. Good to know.

And you know what, I am sure most of the doctors there are brilliant. We have certainly met a couple of really excellent ones. Our problem is that we've seen rather too many docs since V got preggars, over 7 that I can remember. And the system here means that although someone is supposed to be following our case, no one has to. So they don't. It makes the NHS look like Nirvana. The doctors run the show completely, and if ever you want proof that doctors make useless administrators, this hospital is it. So if your first doctor happens to be a useless piece of ### that really doesn't enjoy or care about her job in any way shape or form, then you can find yourself in deep shite. Because our first two visits were with a doctor so lazy and indifferent that she really honestly didn't care what happened to us or the baby, from then on we were invisible. We tried to get ourselves back in a sound footing by changing to a better doctor (one that had been recommended to us), but by then it was too late. We were out of the loop, in between the cracks, down the drain.

Now this wasn't a big problem when everything was hunky dory, but during a routine scan they found that V's amniotic fluid levels was too low, and that's when we really started to wish we were having this baby back in the UK. No one, but no one, wanted to take personal responsibility for our case and see it through. This means that every time we had a bank of tests (and there have been lots) the doctor reviewing our notes would be a different one, with a different view. But that doctor would not want (nor have to) make any decision whatsoever because we weren't his/her patient. And when we asked who's patient we were, we'd be told it didn't work like that, and that we weren't allocated a specific doctor. Catch 22. So no one ever had to make a decision because they could all claim that they were not our doctor.

You also have to picture a medical system based on a semi-feudal hierarchy, with the doctors, with their vast intellects and infinite knowledge (because they are doctors and went to university) lording it over the lowly patients and support staff, who, quite frankly are way too stupid (because they are not doctors) to understand what is going on and should consider themselves blessed by God to have even 5 minutes of time with such superior beings. Oh thank you, thank you, thank you, oh great ones.

This attitude is, of course, passed on to all those who work in the hospital so that at almost every point of contact, from doctor to nurse to admin, you'll find yourself on the end if the same arrogant, condescending attitude. It's a real eye-opener. There's not a hospital in the UK that would last 5 minutes without being ripped to shreds by the press, or the staff, or the patients if they behaved like this. But here, I think people must assume that the more arrogant the staff, the better the hospital.

Last Friday was almost the final straw. We'd been into hospital on the Wednesday for more blood work, swabs, scans, ECGs, you name it. We hadn't been given or explained any of the results. We saw useless-idiot 'dottoressa' (the doc that we'd seen on our first two visits) who flicked through the results, and said she couldn't make any decisions because we weren't her patient (though clearly we were more her patient than anyone else's). Bear in mind that V was 36 weeks gone and needed a date for her caesarean. When I pressed her and asked her to at least look at the timetables and book us a preliminary slot, the look on her face was a picture. Honestly, unless my Italian is worse than I thought, I really didn't ask her to eat ### or to take a dive out of the 4^th story window she was sat next to. Once her mild shock at being asked to do something had worn off (didn't take long), she told us to come back on Friday to see the doctor who might be carrying out the caesarean. No appointment, just come along and try and get 5 minutes with him. We knew this was dodgy as, but what could we do?

We had an appointment with the anaesthetist on the Friday in any case, so we went along. The anaesthetist was miraculous. I say 'miraculous': he didn't walk on water, raise the dead, bring world piece, etc. But he was thorough (was the first doctor to take us though all V's test results and explain each one, and it wasn't even his job to do so), extremely gentle, courteous...the first really patient-focused doctor we'd seen, and it was a blessed relief, I'll tell you. The next two hours weren't so encouraging. We waited, and waited, and waited. We tried to leave a note for the doctor with the nurse in charge, asking him to call us so we could come back when he was less busy. But the nurse looked at me like I was insane, as if to ask a doctor to call a patient was tantamount to calling the doctor's mother a camel. (It is considered quite bad form to call anyone's mother a camel in Italy. Apparently.) Rather than risk the doctor's subsequent wrath (and possibly endangering the lives of her, her family, all her friends, possibly everyone she's ever met) by giving the doctor a note, she repeatedly went looking for him to ask him to see us. He was clearly very busy, and we were perfectly willing to come back another time, but sure enough the doc finally came to see us.

And boy was he pissed.

We rushed us down a corridor to a room with a scanner (which didn't work well as a piece of theatre because V don't rush, no way, no how), and while he scanned her he proceeded to rant about his extremely busy and nightmarish day. It truly was horrendous, I'll grant you. And then moaned about how he can't be expected to interrupt his schedule and see anyone who just turns up. Good point I thought. V was nearly in tears at this point, but I don't think it was out of sympathy towards the doc. I'm pretty sure it wasn't. But then I told him how his crappy colleague had told us to come and see him, without an appointment, and how it was her fault, not ours, that we were here at all. And I asked him what other course of action we should have followed? A very pregnant mother who, according to the doc who gave her the last scan, needed watching very carefully. No date booked for a caesarean then needed to be performed in no less than 2-3 weeks. No medical person (doctor, nurse, or midwife) we could talk to help us get on track. Exactly what was the right way for us to go? What alternative (and perhaps more proper) course of action should we have followed?

At this point the doctor calmed down a bit, and actually apologised. He then took us to an office, gave us an appointment for next week, and even gave us date for the caesarean.

Amazing. After 2.5 hours of considerable stress (one of the things all the docs have told V to avoid), and some considerable, semi-heated Italian-style 'discussion', we had exactly what we came for and could go home. Well, actually, we went out for our last supper alone for quite some time. Very nice fish restaurant in Poggi. Brilliant in fact. Lovely salmon carpaccio, amazing sword-fish...sorry, I digress.

And by the way, this doctor is one of the good ones. He actually seems to care. And he's thorough, and when he's not stressed, over-tired, over-worked and annoyed, he really is very pleasant.

But like all the docs here, he's working within a system so dependent on those at the very top (the docs) to make all the decisions, that no one else is willing to take any responsibility, and the docs themselves will duck additional work almost at any cost. Some of the docs, after you've harangued them for the right length of time, will do the right thing and actually help their patients, while others just don't care. Maybe they did one day, maybe they did once care about being good doctors, and the system has beaten it out of them. Don't know. What I do know is that I intend to be as pushy and irritating (I can do pushy, and I could have been an Olympic irritator – it's a gift, ask V) as I need to be to make sure everything happens as best it can. Or maybe we just need to learn to bend over and take it like an Italian...?

I don't think so.

A house in the trees

Ever since we moved out here we've been talking about building a tree house for Harv. Of course, with everything else that's been going on, a shed in the trees has always slipped down the priority list. But one evening, while Harv was in the UK and I was out with my cousin Marcello having a pizza, I mentioned the idea to him. And that was that. Oh, did I tell you he's builds kids furniture for local kids hospitals, custom kitchens, etc? Hand bloke to have around. Over the next hour we had some ideas down on paper. I then worked out some detailed plans and measurements, bought the wood, and one hot Wednesday in August, we started work.

[End of day one]

It took three days of extremely hard labour, and Harv worked right alongside us the whole time, building some muscles he'd never had before in the process. Marcello was amazing, and knew exactly what to do every step of the way. Friday evening and the job was done.

[day2]

[The team]

[Day 3]

[Harv taking Sam up for the first time]

Harv and some of his school mates slept out in it on Saturday night, cooked salciccia on a camp fire, and went wild in the woods until (by way of a walkie-talkie) I told them to shut up and go to sleep. But it was good seeing them all go native in the fresh air.

Stories from Tuscany

To come next time I write....

• Manic summer and the heat
  
• Worrying olives
  
• School for Sam
  
• Bookings for next year
  

Finally. A bit of peace.

Sorry for the hideous gap between posts. It really was my intention, deluded though it may have been, to post every week. Fat chance. I have tried a couple times, but take last Thursday, for example. I asked V and Kim to look after dinner on their own so that I could babysit and get some writing done at the same time. Made the fatal error of 'popping' into the office to just check email one last time, and found 16 emails I needed to reply to. So as Kim and V were sitting down to a hard-earned glass of Vin Santo (a small one in V's case) near 11 o'clock, I was still furiously tapping away putting the last of the enquires to bed.

You see, 11pm here is early afternoon is the US, so while I'm about to collapse in a sweaty heap, they're just getting going. So I reply to an enquiry feeling all sleepy and floppy, hoping that'll keep them quiet for a few hours, but before I get a chance to log off and sneak out of the office I get a perky and enthusiastic reply back with twice as many questions as they asked the first time! Have a heart!

I guess I shouldn't grumble, and in fact I'm pretty sure I'm not. (Or am I?) We're already picking up some great bookings for next year, and those are the kind of things that mean I'll be able to put my new biomass heating system in this winter and still afford to feed the dogs (rather than eat them).

But it does mean that writing this blog slips down the priority list. And I do know there are some lovely people out there reading this (and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for not making this entire exercise completely futile), but this blogging thing is so one-way that right now, as I type these words, it feels more like I'm talking to myself than talking to you. What I'd really like is a way to write this and have people take the piss, correct my spellings, and generally interact with me while I'm telling my nonsense story in real time. Now that would be a fun way to blog! [Please note that this idea is copyright Simon Zimbler ©2009].

Anyway…tonight V and Kim and Lucy are cooking up a storm, so I'll try and get some stuff published and add the photos tomorrow. Onwards. [Though need a beer first.]

And now, the weather

Fcuk, it's hot. Really really hot. It's dark outside (9pm here), and I swear it must still be in the 30's outside (that's nearly 90 to any Shermans out there in Blogville). Yes, the guests are loving it. Yes, the kids are loving it too when they can get in the pool (which by the way, is like warm tea). I don't mind it at 6.30 when I get to take Sam to the pool for a swim, but frankly, the rest of the time it's a major pain. My office is like a really dirty, untidy oven in need to some serious filing (there, sadly, the analogy is a little thin). And unfortunately (see non-grumble above) I am spending rather a lot of time in my steamy cell at the mo, so it's hard to get outside. And even if I could get out, the land is bone dry and harder than Harvey's Italian homework, so completely unworkable. We need some rain out there pretty badly, but the forecast is for sun, sun, and more sun, though hopefully the temps shouldn't be quite so punishing.

[Now that's what I'm talking about – just been brought a plate of V's broccoli orecchiette by Harv – starvin'!]

Of course, all this heat is even harder on V, who is at least 2 or 3 degrees C hotter then everyone else; a normal side-effect of being consumed from the inside out by our as yet un-named parasitic offspring. It also means it's a little bit like having a quite sizeable (though I hasten to add her bum is still in great shape) hot-water bottle in bed with me, at a time when a hot water bottle (especially one that has to shift and change position every few minutes…again, struggling with my analogies this evening…more beer) is somewhere near bottom of the list of things I'd like in bed with me on a hot, sultry mid-summers night. Oh well, beggars can't be choosers.

Dogs

The dogs are a bit poorly today. They rather stupidly followed a guest on a run that took them onto the Poggi-Castellina road (!!) before they decided they'd bitten off more than they could chew and decided to head back. They've both lost large chunks of skin from their paws and are hobbling around feeling very sorry for themselves. No chasing cars for a while. Poor stupid mutts.

But at least they are alive. Anyone following my equally infrequent Twitter/Facebook entries recently will know that these dogs have been skating on thin ice recently. They have always barked at night. Those cheeky pesky night-time critters know the doggies are well and truly locked up, and do tend to tease them somewhat. One night when the dogs were going more nuts than usual and I was on my way out to terminate their all-too-short lives I found a porcupine digging up stuff right outside their kennel! I mean! Fair's fair! That's just plain cruel! No wonder they were going ape!

Anyway, a couple of weeks back we had four nights in a row when the dogs woke us up every half hour. No amount of beating with a heavy steel rod would shut them up. I was seriously considering the shallow-grave option, but we decided to risk letting them loose all night instead. See if they would go and bark elsewhere, like deep in the woods maybe?

First night: OK, so they weren't barking outside our window, but we could definitely hear them barking outside someone's window. So we slept even less because we were worrying about how many of our guests were going to bawl us out the next morning and demand a full refund or Lola's head on a silver platter. As it happens, I tentatively asked each and every guest, and not one of them complained of losing sleep. The cheerful bastards! So second night V and I did hear them, but we weren't nearly so worried so we slept better. And the third night, we heard them even less. Great! Carla's theory was that the dogs would scare all the critters away and that these night-time beasties would then learn to keep their distance from the house. This in turn would lead to less barking. Everyone wins.

Except that on the forth night a poor young couple who had to be up at 4am to drive to Rome were in fact woken at 1am by an excitable Charlie who'd found a hedgehog in the Tinaia garden, and said hedgehog being somewhat spikey and impregnable, so exasperated Charlie that she insisted on barking at the f'ing hedgehog for the next 2 hours (and possibly beyond). The guests were lovely about it, and said it was OK, and they didn't mind too much (likely story), but we can't risk pissing off guests (not too much anyway), so the dogs are once again locked up.

And actually, they've been pretty good since then. I mean, they wake us up at least once a night, but nothing like the all-night barkathons we'd had before. Maybe they got all that chasing-things-in-the-dark business out of their system and are happy to just snooze? We'll see.

Guests

I know I'm not supposed to mention current or recent guests, but someone I used to work with back in my advertising days has just spent the week here with her acquired-by-marriage Irish family. It was lovely to catch up with Jo after several years, and to meet her beautiful kids and wonderful outlaws. They left this morning and we were very sad to see them go. However, I've hunted high and low for any remnants of that bottle of Irish whiskey but the gits must have polished it off! How dare they! Come back! Bring more whiskey!

He's back!

Harv has been in the UK for 3½ very long weeks, but he got back yesterday, and we're all over-the-moon about having him back. None more so than Sam who spent all afternoon climbing all over him and repeatedly hugging him and giving him kisses. Very cute. Welcome back Harv!

The Swallows

They came, they bred, they had four fat chicks, and now they're gone. We still see them all catching bugs all ar

ound the house, but when I looked this evening their nest was empty for the first time. Very sad, though frankly how all six of them managed to fit on one tiny nest I'll never know. But it's been lovely to watch them do their thang from so close up…a new experience for me. Let's hope they make the massive migration to Africa and back without a hitch and all come back to make new babies (and fresh piles of swallow poo) next year. Bye birdies!

No more oil!

Hard to believe, but the last of this year's oil is all boxed up and ready to make it's journey across to Canada. I have around 50 litres of liquid gold left, and that should just about last us the season (as long as no one gets greedy and snaffles more than their fair share). Let's hope November's oil proves just as popular! I have3 or 4 5-litre tins left if anyone wants them...? Going...going...

A Tuscan wedding...

A 'big' wedding in Chianti

Well... big for us, that is. And a huge week for the happy couple. And a very happy they are (phew). Yes, our biggest week of the year so far is over. All the planning and tension gone. I'd like to say it's a relief, but the truth of the matter is we had a great time last week. It really was fantastic fun. And getting back to 'normal' life (whatever that means in this highly unpredictable environment) is nice but a bit sad at the same time.

OK, now I know back when I started this blog that I was not going to get personal, that I was going to avoid talking about current or recent guests on the grounds that I might incriminate myself, embarrass people, get sued for libel, and so on. It's going to be quite hard to talk about last week without bringing a few real people into the story, but I'll do my best.

Here comes the bride, and our first foul-up?

So first off the bride and groom arrives. This was a week ago last Sunday. Said hello had a bit of a chat, and then a bit of a panic when another car turns up that we weren't expecting. As they wind down their car windows to say hello, I smile back, and then my heart freezes when I see the arrival instructions I must have sent them at some point.

This is one of the things I fear most of all: the dreaded Booking Cock-up - someone turning up having booked a lovely 2-week stay with us, only we have a wedding party arriving and we're full for the week, for example. So I smile, and try not to look too startled, while I quickly dash back into the office to check just how serious this cock-up is. At this point my heart is beating like a jungle drum and the sweat is starting to gather at the back of my neck. My pants are feelin clammy too - it's hot!

Of course (of course!!??) there is no cock-up, just a slight mis-communication between V and I about a new booking that I had failed to warn V about. In fact, the newbies are here for only 3 nights, and they leave just as the full wedding party arrives. But for a minute, V and I both thought we were going to start our first day of this wedding week with a snafu. That was a close one.

Let's taste some wine

So the next couple of days is taken with me ferrying the B&G around to the British Consulate and the Siena Comune to sign various bits of paperwork. Again, each of these small but significant steps is a potential bear trap, as I approach each hurdle with a not insignificant shortness of breath which I mask by pretending to be unfit (not hard, or even untrue, so not 'pretending' in the strictest sense, or any sense at all). Anyway, the system as it is works well as it usually does, and the small inherent risk that always comes from having a brush with bureaucracy in Italy doesn't in fact cause us any problems. By Tuesday lunchtime, everything is in place, and we know without a shadow of a doubt that barring some natural disaster, there's going to be a wedding on Friday. Breathe.

So that evening, we celebrate by tasting some whites for the wedding receptions. Three bottles, so be precise. So we spend a very pleasant evening under the stars drinking beautiful white wine watch kestrels and bats flying acrobatics over our heads. Mustn't grumble.

The invasion begins

The next day is not quite as relaxing. 28 friends and rellies arrive throughout the day, and meanwhile we're preparing more pizza dough than Patrignone has ever seen in one day. That night everyone gets together and while we try and keep people plied with antipasti and pizza, the two wedding families get together and get to know each other on the Terrace. And you know what, I love making pizza, really I do, but I have now firmly crossed Pizza Chef off my list of potential back-up careers. It's bloody hard work! We churned out 30 pizzas using 2 ovens in around an hour and a half, peanuts compared to most good pizza restaurants! We were knackered by the end of the night!

Still, everyone seemed to have fun, and that's what counts. They app partied until the early hours. We went to bed and slept like corpses.

(Until the f-ing dogs started barking at 4am at some random night-beast in the woods!)

Finally, the big day

Well, to be fair to us, we were pretty well prepared. Ettore had arrived with the lamb(s) the night before, and beautiful it (they) looked too (though, of course, not as beautiful as they would have looked bouncing across summer meadows, but that's life, innit). V had organised the food down to the last detail and was raring to go. The tables and chairs were in place and just needed decorating (just!). The only thing we were missing was a married couple and their entourage to feed.

So I did my bit and took them all to Siena for a wedding. A convoy of 7 cars and a minibus, with me at the front with the bride and her parents, all snaking our way through the tiny streets of central Siena trying reasonable hard not to clip startled tourists as we drove past. There is a pre-defined route that all cars must follow into the Piazza del Campo for a wedding ceremony, and I promise you it is NOT easy. It really is like being a rat in a maze. But when we suddenly rounded a corner and drove right into the Piazza del Campo, well...wow, what a sight. Takes your breath away every time. And driving into it feels so naughty! I pulled up right in front of the Palazzo Publico with the bride, while the other cars parked in the Piazza del Mercato behind: here's an aerial view for you...

So, a short wait outside, the excited procession to the Wedding Chamber in the 1st floor, and then the wedding itself, presided over by the Mayor and translated by yours truly (yes, I was nervous, yes, I did sweat a little, no, it wasn't too bad - no damp pants). I won't go into too much detail because it was their day, not ours, but it was a lovely, moving experience in the most amazing of surroundings, and I felt completely thrilled for them both.

Hello. My name is...

Now the next bit I will talk about because it was pure theatre, pure luck, and pure magic. After the ceremony, lots of cheering, lots of clapping, confetti, smiles, tears, hugs, kisses...and then we all troop off across the Piazza del Campo for a post wedding drink in a bar, cheered by crowds of clapping tourists (thank God they weren't hungry and it could have got nasty). Prosecco and beer, and I'm not ashamed to admit I went for the latter. It was hot!

So, we're all drinking and chatting and smiling, when suddenly there's a bit of a murmur, and it spreads through he group like a Mexican wave, finally getting to me. I stand up to see what the fuss is, and someone says, "You know what, it's really is him! That's Michael Caine!" Sure enough, the G is smiling away and chatting to the most famous British actor of all time. And next, the big man (he really is very tall) is standing up and moving out into the Piazza, to be joined by a very smily B and the G's uncle (official photographer). Photos are taken, Sir Michael shakes hands with the G, kisses the B, and waves to us all as we clap and cheer from our tables before returning to his table. Very cool. What a nice bloke.

The G told me later that this is more than a special moment for him. Mr.C. has been his idol since he was a small boy, and he even has a large canvas picture of him in his flat at home. To meet Sir M ever would be a privilege, but to bump into him in a bar on the Piazza del Campo, 20 minutes after he's got married, and have a wedding photo taken with Alfred himself? Not possible. The G said he's just had the two best moments of his entire life in a half-hour period, luckily, in the right order.

Amazing.

[Photo copyright Patrick White 2009]

Food, more food, and a party

The reception in the afternoon was a breeze. It was bloody hot out on the Terrace, but there was breeze to cool things off, and plenty of ice-cold wine and water. V put on a fantastic wedding banquet, half a dozen different hors d'oeuvres and antipasti, home-made ravioli, fresh Sardinian lamb, Kim's amazing lemon tart...all spread out over around 4 hours or more. I was head waiter, and I swear I must have walked around 10 miles. I can't really do the plate-balancing thing too well (never head silver-service training) so that increased the number of trips needed significantly. And there would have been a whole load more too if the helpful guests hadn't helped by stacking plates for me! They were all so sweet!

And then, once we'd cleared everything up, put the final plate in the dish-washer, polished the last glass, and straightened the last chair, we collapsed. A shower, feet up on the sofa, a large icy screwdriver (not my usual, but it was all I could lay my hands on with minimal effort).

Then V went to bed, while I popped over to the party in the woods to say hello and have a quick drink before I hit the hay. Only, it didn't quite turn out that way. People kept giving me beers, more beers, Prosecco, more beer, and so on, which meant I didn't get to bed until 2am, and by then I already had a headache!

And Sam woke at 6.30am, little darling, so V had a bit of a lie-in while me and Sam watched Charlie and Lola on TV.

Since then....

Well, of course it's nice to get back into a more evenly paced existence, but you know what? I really liked being flat out, 100, 100 degrees hot manic for a while, and being part of making this week such a special one for the B&G is a big buzz, more fun even than winning a big advertising pitch back in the old days. We all felt very proud of the work we'd done and enriched by the people we'd met. We'd got though the biggest week of the year with flying colours, and had fun in the process. Now that I like.

I'll post a few pictures with this when I get a mo...now fly away, little blog, fly.

Let the rumpus begin!

Someone's BIG Tuscan wedding day

OK, this is probably going to be a short entry, and there may not be another for a while. We have a big wedding here next week...well, big-ish...OK, not that big really, but we're still 'brickin' it' (as they say back in ol'Blighteh) a little. It's not that we're not well, organised, or that we're not on control, or that we're worried much about the practicalities. There will be a wedding (at which I will act as official translator, and despite years of doing large stressful business presentations to many big important people, I will probably be extremely nervous and sweat buckets), there will be a reception banquet here on the Terrace for 30 (and V will cook some amazing food, and they will drink not indecent quantities of good Tuscan vino, and everyone will be happy), and there will be a rave in the woods (OK, this isn't usual, but each to their own and I'm thinking it might be great fun so I'm definitely going). All pretty normal, not especially risky, nothing to get too worried about.

And yet there is the knowledge that this is probably one of the most important days in this young couple's lives thus far, and its success is largely down to us. If we screw up, we ruin their big day, and possibly their entire lives. One slip from us and they probably get divorced in three weeks, she looses her job and ends up working in a supermarket, he gets a serious alcohol habit and a gambling habit to boot and ends up penniless and destitute.

That's a lot of responsibility. A lot. Of responsibility. It's a BIG deal. And this is what is making us nervous with less than a week to go (err...actually 3 days now - yikes!). So we have had two project management meetings in two days, have several charts and tables, and many many lists. And if one small thing slips through the crack, someone is going to pay.

Anyway, if you don't hear from me for another 10 days or more, it's either because it all went really well and we had a few days down-time (ha!) after the wedding to recover, or it's because I cracked under the strain, went to the rave in the woods, and have not been seen since (though I'll let everyone know I'm OK by howling from the woods every now and then...I wouldn't want V to worry, that would be inconsiderate.) (PS So far so good! All paperwork for the couple is in order and they love it here. The rest of the party arrives tomorrow...should be fun!)

Other news?

I did say this is going to be a short entry, and I meant it. So here's a brief summery of other stuff that's happened:

• Just shipped my first small shipment of oil to a deli opening in Vancouver. There was a tear in my eye as the courier took the tins away...make be proud boys, make me proud. [By the way, the tins are male, the bottles female...is this wrong?] Also packed another 10 tins off to Kathleen today - those East Coasters are hooked good and proper. I bet they've started smoking it, or even main-lining it maybe...they are HARD-CORE.
  
• Big winds last Friday night ruined my planned quiet Saturday by pulling down a huge chunk of the lovely wisteria on the corner of the Villa, which also took down the drain pipe it happened to be tightly coiled around. So I spent my Saturday (with the help of Kimbers) hacking the felled wisteria and replacing the drain pipe. Both are now doing fine.
• As is V. According to the Beeb the alien parasite is 25cm long. It's still rather quiet, and this is leading V to mistakenly believe it's a sweet quiet girl. Fat chance. The women in my family aren't a meek and quiet lot. So it's a boy, bound to be, just maybe the quiet thoughtful type?...naa, they don't run in the family either. We'll find out soon enough.
• V ran her first Tuscan cookery class a couple of weeks back and all went swimmingly, though I can't say I was a huge fan of the grappa panna cotta. Definitely had a certain kick to it.
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
• Our two lots of nesting swallows are both not keeping eggs warm. Cat hasn't shown much interest yet, but maybe she's waiting for the nest to produce something more filling?

OK, forgot to press 'publish' when I wrote this [idiot - Ed] so sorry it's a bit late!



Oh, and here's that interesting paragraph again. Thank you for all those who took the time and considerable effort to comment on how it was, by far, the most interesting part of last week's blog. This one [wink, wink] is for you...

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Hot air and the Adventures of a Small Furry Animal (part 2)

Sorry for the delay....normal service may be resumed...maybe

Finding the time to do this blog thing is harder than I thought. A lie. I thought it would be tricky, but assumed I'd find the odd half-hour here and there. Not so. So I've now got lots of things to talk about and about...well...two hours typing time, I guess, in which to do it all. V and Kim are cooking up a storm for guests tonight....finocchiona on freshly baked gnioccho (I'd better remember to check the spelling on this lot later!), Pasta Senese (my fave), roast pork, rosewater panna cotta and rose ice-cream (guess what's in season?)...anyway, enough about that. It's making me hungry, and I haven't budgeted any time for food. 3...2...1...go.

The Patrignone Balloon Fiesta

Mark and his balloon team were here all last week, and we had a fantastic, albeit brief time with them. As usual the pressures of normal life here meant I didn't spend as much time with him as I would have liked. But we had some fantastic flights, and even a bit of a drama to spice things up.

The first flight on the Sunday morning took us right over the Piazza del Campo in Siena...what a spectacular view that was! The landing was hairy to say the least, but hilarious. We were dragged 40m though a field of broad-beans/animal feed (depending on who's story you believe), and we ended up with the basket on its side, me and Harvey laughing ourselves stupid with Mark and Philippa well and truly on top of us. Thursday saw Patrignone's first ever balloon launch. We took off from Campo della Fonte and got some good pictures and some video of Patrignone from the air. If I can work out a way to get some of this video down-sized and uploaded without wasting half my life trying, I'll update this blog entry in due course.

On the Tuesday I was crewing, which means I get to tear around Chianti in a Land Rover following a hot-air balloon while talking into a walkie-talkie. What fun! Well, these things are normally rather straight forward, only this time things got a bit...shall we say "Interesting" at the very least. Mark was burning [balloon-speak - Ed] quite hard to get off the ground as the basket was a little heavy, and when he took off [showing off now - Ed], he lit some gas [made-up - Ed] to get high quite quickly. However, this caused to balloon to drop a flag telling Mark that the envelope was too hot. So Mark prudently decided to keep low [bored now - Ed] and look for a safe spot to put down so that someone could get out to lighten the load. Only the wind died completely, leaving Martin and myself running backwards and forwards across vineyards, ploughed fields, fences and ditches, while Mark tried repeatedly to circle around and put the balloon down in the same field, only to be thwarted when the breeze would pick up at the last moment, leaving him with no choice but to burn hard and go up and around again (I didn't know balloons could do that either, but they can), or risk ploughing into 20-year-old mature vines, and probably get us all lynched.

We eventually got down OK, and the two B&B guests who went up with Mark in the balloon absolutely loved every minute. For my part, I quite enjoyed the excitement, but could have done without the sprained ankle.

It was a tiring week, with lots of early starts for us all, but especially for Mark, who was up before the crack of dawn every day. So thanks a million Mark - you're a star and a half. And let's hope we can convince you to make an annual event of it, though maybe not every single morning, eh?

Furry Rodent Adventures

Sorry, but part 2 of the Adventures of Roger the Rodent will have wait until next time. I'm on a schedule.

Kimber's back

Yes, our intrepid Ozzie alla pari is back with us for another season, and with V up-the-duff (did I mention that before...no...?) we're very glad to have her. Though quite how insane she must be to come back for another summer of slave labour with us should be a worry to her friends and family alike. You would have thought she would have learned her lesson, wouldn't you? I guess it takes all sorts.

In any case, she's settled straight back in and you can hear all this from her point of view on her blog... The Kimba Chronicles (though shame about the spelling Kimbers).

Welcome back Kim.

[Am currently chompin on some fresh gnioccho brought in kindly by Harv...hmm...not bad, if I say so myself...]

V has a bun in the oven

Yes, V is indeed expecting another bundle of joy. Well done me. We don't know the sex yet, but V desperately wants a girl, and I guess I do too, if only to provide some familial balance, and V really really wants a cute thing to dress up in pretty clothes. So if it's a boy, expect an ambiguous name (Lesley/Leslie?) and don't be surprised to see the poor blighter in a skirt and shiny shoes from time to time.

We're obviously delighted. It's due via the sun-roof sometime mid-October. More news as and when...

Tuscan Weddings a go-go

I am supposed to be liberally sprinkling this blog with key search phrases like "Weddings in Tuscany", and "Chianti Weddings". Apparently such phrases will make my blog irresistible to the Google worms which feed on such stuff, growing larger and fatter and presumably ever hungrier for more snappy keywords. No wonder Google is so big. It's literally eating the Internet. (Shouldn't somebody do something?)

I am trying to remember to be good, but it's hard to [hmm...pan-fried finocchiona...I knew V wouldn't let me starve] write in a natural way while plugging the blog. Maybe I should have a blatantly commercial paragraph somewhere near then end that you can completely ignore?

Anyway, we've got four weddings here this summer, with another possible late booking for October (a couple who were here just last week, got engaged in Venice, and want to get married here...how sweet!). The first is in June (sorry, got distracted by a large plate of pasta... an occupational hazard round these parts) and it's quite a biggie.

We are, of course, more than a little nervous. The dearly intended have entrusted us with one of the biggest days of their lives, and by golly we're going to give them a day to remember! But it's a lot of work for us, and a lot of pressure. There's a lot to get right, but I guess we've been planning this for several months now, and everything is pretty much in place. I'm doing all the paperwork, which is pretty straight forward for a UK couple, albeit time-consuming, we've got the menu planned, the forest disco organised, Prosecco ordered, fresh lamb in the freezer (and when I say fresh, this little bundle of fluff was springing through Sardinian fields yesterday morning)...all is in hand.

But we're still a little on edge, and I guess it'll only get worse as the day approaches. And maybe that's the way it should be. We wouldn't want anyone accusing us of not treating the whole thing with the gravity and seriousness it deserves, even if the bride and groom are about as easy-going and laid back as you can get.

I think I'm getting an ulcer.


Our Swimming Pool in Tuscany is now open...and the swallows are back

And a whole month earlier than last year! We've has some amazing weather the last few weeks, glorious sunshine, blue skies, everything flowering and growing like mad after all the winter rain. So if you are looking for a Villa in Chianti with a lovely swimming pool, then make sure you take a loot at our website at www.patrignone.com before you book anywhere else. Thinking of booking an apartment in Tuscany? Well, what do you know?! We have just the thing!

See? Sounds shitty. Can't be done.

Oh, and the swallows have invaded in force. We keep beating them back, the rotten swine, but they just keep on coming! Why, oh why won't they leave us alone? We won't last long...tell Laura I love her. Two pairs nesting either side of the Villa kitchen. Stupid birds, but very chatty and pretty. Keep flying into my office to say hello. Miao'll get'em for sure. [Sniff.]

The final touches to our extra-virgin 100% organic olive oil

(Yes, I am still trying.) It's nearly then end of spring, so before the cantina gets too warm, I've been making the final adjustments to my olive oil. Basically, this means I've decanted off any sediment from the bottom of the storage vats from craftily designed taps in the conical bottom, filtered some of my remaining unfiltered oil, and done a little surreptitious blending. The finished product is extremely good - I'm really happy with it. Mind you, it's not like I can really claim much credit. Frankly, all I did was pick the olives, and that I most certainly didn't do that alone.

But it is none-the-less very satisfying to end up with such a good and completely natural oil.

Now I just need to find someone who can take a few hundred litres! I have a couple of promising leads in Vancouver, so watch this space. Meanwhile, my efforts to set up a more direct network of 'friends of Patrignone Olive Oil' (who buy direct from me and distribute to their friends and family to keep prices down) needs more work from me, and I intend to attack the issue with renewed vigour next week. I promise Kathleen!

Oh, and I found a 50 litre tin of unfiltered oil that I had set aside from a single day early in the harvest in October...and it's amazing! First come, first served!

And, I'm nearly done!

I just need to add some pictures tomorrow, but I'll press the 'publish' button now just in case some other catastrophe takes over.

Finally...please don't read this

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As I write this there is a vicious storm looming. The lighting is striking close by, no more than a couple of klicks away, and set we've not had more than a drop or two of rain so far. Enough to give the air that deliciously strong scent of earth, dust, and iron, like blood in your mouth. But on the whole mustn't grumble, we're had a couple of fantastic days, beautiful weather, stunning sunsets.

We cooked for our guests last night. A full house - everyone staying here came to eat, and a merry old time they all had. We started the meal with a bottle of Prosecco out on the Terracotta Terrace watching a big red disk set through the thinnest of mists behind the Apennines. It was a bit chilly, but no one seemed to mind. People will put up with a lot for a good sunset or a spectacular sunrise.

We set wine enough for half a bottle a head, but we ended up supplying several refills, so there was much chatting, much laughing, and everyone seemed to get on really well. The food was great, much better than my over-cooked pork from last week. V has got into her stride really quickly this year, and the she did an Ossobuco that would be hard to beat anywhere, I kid you not. We had the left-overs this evening, and I swear it was even better than it was last night, as is often the way.

We sat and had a drink with our guests afterwards, before heading off to bed and leaving them to finish a bottle of decent Vin Santo.

The end is neigh

Yikes. The storm has now kicked off in fine pyrotechnic and apocalyptic style. That last crash shook every window in the house. Everyone else has gone to bed (it is past 11, after all) but how they're managing to sleep through all if this is anyone's guess.

Every time there's a big storm like this, we worry. Is a roof leaking somewhere, are we going to find an apartment flooded, is some poor unsuspecting guest going to get dripped on in their bed?
Of course, apart from the off drop or there, guests haven't had to cope with anything serious yet, thank goodness. But we have had bad leaks, and I guess, with a place as old as this, with some of the ferocious storms we get (like this one...it really is a hum-dinger), there is always the risk the someone may be going home with the kind of Tuscan adventure story they weren't expecting.

So we worry. We cross our fingers (metaphorically speaking), do a bit of praying (usually metaphorically, though not necessarily), and we hope for the best.

And right on cue, we get a power cut. The wind is howling out there, and it probably did something extreme to the power lines. I lost 15 minutes of pointless drivel, which you won't miss either, I promise you, and I headed out in the rain with a head-torch so see if there was anything I could do. As it happens, the problem was up the line somewhere and the power came back on of its own accord before I could get too wet. [By the way, don't let all this talk of storms put you off coming to Tuscany in April or May - most of the time it's lovely, honestly! Wait till you see some of my pictures!]

And what of our guests?

Well, as I promised some time ago, in the aim of being non-specific when it comes to guests, so as to avoid any direct finger pointing and embarrassment, especially to those staying here at the moment, I can't really talk about our current guests...except to say that they are all lovely. We had a group of young ladies leave today who got extremely attached to Miao and the dogs, and we were sorry to see them go to. Have fun ladies.

But it does mean that maybe I can recount an embarrassing story or two for last year, does it not? I mean, as long as I'm not naming names?

Furry friends

Well, let me tell you a story about a very resourceful critter. Small. Furry. Pink pointy nose. Whiskers. Not a small cat. Anyway, one of our guests came knocking on our door one afternoon to say someone or something had been at their fruit. Of course, we're living out in the country, trespassing on Nature's patch, so it's not surprising we get the occasional unwelcome visitor. We've had birds, mice, stray cats, lost dogs, even the occasional horse (another time, maybe). So we try to keep calm, and deal with the matter in a relaxed way. So out came the trap, grizzly metal contraction designed to dice and slice with minimal collateral mess. Actually, I jest. It's a steel trap much like the one used by the children-catcher in Chitty-Chitty Bang-Bang. [Though quite why I should have though of that right now is beyond me. I must be losing the plot. Maybe I'd better go to bed and finish this tomorrow? Good idea.]

I need to finish these blogs when I can, because it's now 4 days later and I've lost my train of thought. And I'm really not totally convinced I should be airing our furry visitor stores in public! Should I?

I'll have a think...but for now. I'll stop here.

Don't you diss my anima

Sorry for the delay in posts but I have had my hands somewhat full over the last week or so. V went off to the UK to hang from trees....at least that was the plan, though wisely, they wouldn't let her.

I was left with the boys, Karri (my mate from Vancouver who I haven't seen in 5 years - check out her amazing restaurant at http://www.chambar.com/ - best restaurent in Vancouver!) and a couple of newly-weds enjoying their honeymoon.

I must admit, the couple of days before V left I was a little bit tense. Juts a wee bit. A tad snappy perhaps? Partly this was the injustice at being deserted, abandoned and left to fend for myself with all this work to do (despite the fact that I'm way ahead on the weekend away score sheet). Mostly it was fear. Fear that the boys would be unhappy, insecure, and consequently evil.

And don't get me wrong, it hasn't been an easy few days. Trying to keep up with a constant barrage of phone-calls and emails while being a full-time child-carer is no easy matter. Every time Sam went for a nap I would dash straight into the office and type feverishly for 2 hours. And after the boys were in bed it was back into the office for me.

I felt most badly for Karri. She's come all the way from Canada to see Tuscany (and us, I guess) and to get some down-time from her busy life and equally young family, and she's been stuck here with me and my brood. And the foul weather hasn't helped. Still, she's been bloody marvellous, keeping an eye on the boys when I needed to sort anything out, helping out around the kitchen...a real busman's holiday for her, poor petal.

Anyway, the long and short of it is, I loved it. We all got along brilliantly. Harv was the star of the show, being super-helpful and fun, spending loads of time with Sam, and just being an all-round superstar kid. Sam showed signs of stress early on but then really enjoyed spending time with his old man. We all got on like a house on fire, and I managed to keep enough of my work going to keep me happy.

More importantly, it made me realise what I've been missing. I have got to get a better grip of my work-load so that I can spend more time with the kids. It's all very well seeing them several times a day because we live and work in the same place, but it's not enough. I'll have to move more of my work so that I can do it on the PC in the house, and think of other ways to reschudule my work, even if it means working more at night. Whats the point of bringing our kids to grow up in such a fantastic place if I don't get to see any of it?

The next crisis

Last Thursday morning my main office PC started spitting nasty error messages at me, and while I tried to patch things up by rolling back the system but not luck. Things got suddenly very bad indeed, and it took me two days just to be able to get my data of the bloody machine. I then spent the next two days solid (well, as much of Sunday as V would let me use under these special emergencvy circumstances) rebuilding the machine from scratch. And here I am, finishing the blog I started over a week ago on the now-working machine.

It's amazing how much time techology can save, but if I add up all the hours of my life that I've wasted sorting out techology nightmares, I truly wonder if I'm ahead or heavily over-drawn.

Our first 2009 Patrignone dinner

Well, V and I haven't quite got our arses into gear yet because we nearly had 'a situation' on our hands on Saturday. Neither of us had properly checked my calendar and realised at midday that we had a meal to cook for our guests - all 8 of them. And to top things off, it was Independence Day on Saturday, with nearly everything finishing at 1! So I had the throw Sam in the car and dash around to three seperate towns lookig for a supermarket where I could get a few essential supplies, while V had the marigolds on and was cleanning Caminetto.

We had a few moments of pannic that had more to do with the shock of realising we were about to expose our cooking to our guests than the fear over ingrediants. Needless to say, it all went swimmingly. I tought my pork was over-done, but the pasta and cake were amazing, so V saved the day.

Anyway, just in case some other crisis takes over that prevents me from publishing this for another week, I'l press the button now, and check the spelling later!

The Easter Bunny, and things that go bump in the night

Easter, Easter, blah, blah, blah

Well, it's Easter Sunday, so happy Easter/Passover etc to those of you with a religious bent, and Happy Holidays to those of you without.

I must admit, Easter never really been much fun for me. Even if I weren't living in Italy where the TV is rubbish (and here it's badly-dubbed into super-fast well-neigh-incomprehensible Italian), I eat too much (usually out of boredom), and it rains. Today though, not really so bad, I must admit. Sam was super-tetchy this morning and did what he could to ruin any semblance of serenity at our Easter brekkie. But then we had an Easter egg hunt outside. V had sneaked out and strategically placed a number of sickly choccy eggs at various heights and degrees of difficulty, and off they went, our two, Jack'n'Helen's two and three youngsters belonging to a German family staying here.

And they loved it! But what most impressed me was how well-behaved they all were. Don't get me wrong: much running and high-pitched screaming, as you might expect. And the dogs joined in too, finding a few low-lying eggs and polishing them off sharpish. But some serious socialist redistribution of wealth going on, with kids adding their finds to the baskets of the not so quick-off-the-mark younger members. Sam was way too excited to really work out what was going on, and way too slow, but none-the-less he ended up with a basket-full, most of which were placed there by the other children. It really was sweet. If only they could keep that sense of fairness as they get older.

Anyway, bottom line: it was fine. Maybe I'm softening in my old age. Maybe it's having kids. Maybe I'm having a stroke. And I'm looking forward to roasting some lamb and beef later...might even do some Yorkshire puds!

We need more juice

I am getting really worried about our electricity supply. I am worried bout our teetering-on -the-edge boiler too, but our lekkie supply, or lack of it, is starting to press on me. One of the meters tripped half a dozen times this morning, just because someone was using the dishwasher while someone was using a grill. These things on their own aren't the problem. The problem is we all have so much more stuff plugged in than we used to do. 5 years ago my office would have had a PC and a phone. The PC might have been switched on once a day. Maybe. Now there's a PC, a router, a UPS, a phone, a network hard drive, the power-supply for the high-speed internet aerial, a printer (on standby, but still consuming) and who knows what else. As I walked into an apartment to try and find out what was tripping, I saw a mini-computer, a phone charging, an iPod charging, a couple of kids toys, and that was just in the kitchen, never mind what was plugged in the bedroom sockets. Even though these devices are usually low consumers, there are so many of them that our tiny supply is no longer up to the job. So as soon as something big is added (like a grill), pop.

I'd love to put in a photo-voltaic plant, but I just don't have €50k lying around, and if I did, I'd need to spend it elsewhere. But just think - free, zero-carbon electricity! So many karma points!

I'm not sure what I can do - we are, after all, in the middle of no-where, but something has to happen, that is for sure. I'll call the sparky on Tuesday, and get the ball rolling. That's immediately after I've called a couple of people to come and quote us on a carbon-neutral bio-mass heating system. Though unless I take a farmers exam (the one I failed last year because my Italian is so naff) I can't actually buy it until the end of the year. I just hope the main house's boiler lasts that long...or we're toast.

Midnight rumbles

And we had our own mini-earthquake here yesterday. V and I both woke up and said "What the feck was that?". Everything shook, just for a second, then stopped. Nothing serious. Nothing even unusual - Carla says she used to get them here all the time. Italy's history is littered with destructive earthquakes, volcanic eruptions and so on. The peninsula is a warren of fault-lines and sliding tectonic plates.

However, our little shudder is a timely reminder of how awful things must be for so many tens of thousands of people just a couple of hours drive from here. It's mad - very weird to know how terrible these people must feel, all those thousands who have lost their homes as well as their town, those terrible, terrible souls who have lost loved ones, and yet I feel detached from it all. It could be happening on the other side of the world, and I feel guilty and sad that I don't feel more connected to them.

Maybe my anger after the tsunami is still there under the surface. 250,000+ lives stuffed out in minutes, seconds even, and yet the story was off the front page in days. The biggest single loss-of-life in my life-time, and people were bored of it far quicker than they get bored of some no-news event on Big Brother. I was livid, and stayed that way for weeks. Until I too forgot.

If you feel guilted into making some small contribution, try this link here. It's hard to know if it'll make any difference, but better to try than not to.

And finally...

Lola is in my bad books again. She's been in the pond and torn out my pampus grass! So I had to wade into that icy cold water and rescue the roots before the carp ate the lot. I have replanted and hope that the poor plant survives. Bloody dogs!

Fact or fiction? Cold water and the moving Earth.

The truth, the whole truth?

It is tricky. I'm doing this blog because I want to be able to produce a record of some of things that go on here. It's partly for me. I already find it hard to believe some of the things we've achieved and some of the mad things that have happened. But it's also for people who've been here before and want to keep up with our day-to-day dramas. And for newbies who've never been but want to get a taste for what goes on here before they decide to join us in our oasis of Tuscan calm and serenity.

So what do I do when things go wrong? Do I come clean, 'fess up, spill my guts, weep like a baby (virtually, of course). Do I lay into 'problem' guests and flay them alive on-line? Am I being fair to rant at people that can't rant back? Would it be right to do so? And what about when things do go wrong, when it really is our fault? Won't telling the truth put people off from coming here in the first place?

Tricky.

On the subject of problem guests, I am going to have to err on the side of modesty and compassion. So I'm sorry to say that you're not going to hear about particular guest problems right now. You may hear about them in the future, and tomorrow you may hear me talk about some of the real hum-dingers we had last year (heavily disguised, of course).

As for other problems that start and end with us, well, I think they're fair game, don't you?

X-treme washing

So, let's paint a picture. I'm in the middle of a course on safety considerations in wine-making cantinas when I get a text from V: call as soon as you can PLEASE, we have no hot water and guests getting antsy. I make my excuses and call V from the corridor. I talk her through some immediate tests, but it's pretty clear the boiler is, in some non-trivial way, buggered. There is, as V so expertly pointed out, no hot water. None. I go back into the course and panic for a few minutes about what to do next, before deciding I couldn't understand more than 10% of what was being said in the lecture anyway, and my time would be better spent getting my sorry arse back home ASAP.

Good move, bad move. Necessary, but once I had managed to pacify a couple of none-too-pleased guests who had been forced to rudely shed their Chianti hang-overs by having a cold shower, I was not feeling so full of the joys of spring. The boiler was indeed kaput, but some cunning plumbing surgery meant that I managed to get the hot water back on-line within 30 minutes or so.

Still, every time I face an unhappy guest (and I can count them on the fingers of one hand, minus a thumb, and a little finger, and another finger) I do end up feeling somewhat depressed. I just haven't managed to grow a thick enough skin as yet. Not enough practice. I end up taking comments personally, I get defensive, angry, and it's as much as I can do to keep a calm exterior façade and try to mediate between the concerns of my guests (justifiable as they probably are) and the angry Mr.Hyde that just want so club them over the head with a spade. Still, I really, really forced myself to confront the issue head on (rather than sulk in my office), to embrace the pain (metaphorically), to disarm them (through gritted teeth) and you know what, it worked. I diffused the situation and felt much better for it myself, and they were happy too.

The reality is that almost everyone thought the whole cold shower thing was cool, a brush with rural living, another story to tell when they get back, a refreshingly dangerous way to start the day. But it's not those ones you have to worry about: it's the few who don't think it's funny, who don't think that waking up to thick fog after a chilly night and having to have a cold shower, is romantic, rustic, and charming. Those are the ones you have to watch.

All a bit cryptic, I know, but I may revisit this one at some future unspecified date and kiss'n'tell.

L'Aquilla

And, of course, relatively speaking, all this is trivial. Completely trivial. 220 dead, and the body count rising steadily. 14,000 homeless, without a shower, hot, cold or otherwise. This is not trivial.

The weird thing is that yesterday I managed to go to the doctors and do a small shop at the Coop without hearing a whisper. It wasn't until I got back at 10am and checked my email that I realised what had happened. Emails from concerned friends, past guests, and guests to come sent me to the Beeb to find out what was going on. Why had no one said anything? Why weren't there groups of people huddled around TV sets in the supermarket or at the surgery? I am not sure if I am generalising, but I am starting to worry that the Italians take their NIMBYism too seriously. Don't get me wrong, the TV and radio stations were full of the coverage, but from people on the streets, in the supermarkets...?

It felt very surreal to be watching this all on TV as if I were watching yet another 3rd world disaster, when in fact I could get in my car and be on the outskirts of this medieval-city-turned-hell-hole in around 3 hours. And of course, the thought of making the trip lamely crossed my mind on several occasions, but oh so much more pressing pressures, like finding someone to fix the unfixable boiler and calming a tetchy guest beat me into submission. And I couldn't leave V alone with 2 kids and 20 demanding customers. Anyway, can you imagine the scene? "Hi there, I've come to help." "Oh really, you a doctor, a trained rescue worker, a nurse...an engineer, a fireman maybe?" "Well, actually, no, but I can get hot water from of broken boiler, will that help?"

Or is that just another excuse?

Podere Patrignone
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Bed time. Our first guests of the year arrived this evening, a couple from Switzerland with a coulpe from Venzuela. Interesting mix but works for them. It's amazing how on edge we are before anyone arrives. The old paranoia kicks in hard and fast. What if they hate the place, find it too cold, too messy, what if they are in a foul mood, had a huge argument, have we done enough to make the place nice, will they be disappointed, will they hate us, what if they are petrified of dogs? Will they happy. Will we be happy?

Needless to say it all went fine. They love it here and despite the chill brought a couiple of bottles of wine out and watched the sun go down. It was a good'n too.

On we go. Big, BIG group arrives on Saturday - that's the real test.

End of 1st day's blogging. Not too painful. Wonder if I'll be able to keep it up.

Where do I start?

Do I wait for a more interesting day, a more momentous day? One where I have more time, or I'm in a better mood? Do I bother trying to go back and describe some of the truly scary things we've been up to here over the last couple of months? Some of them are really, really interesting and exciting, truly. Hmm?...maybe later.

What's happened so far today? Well, I've had a plumber out, followed by a heating engineer. Between them they fixed all the problems I knew I had, plus a couple I didn't know I had. So I guess I should have been feeling more stressed than I was. [Is it possible to be more stressed than AHHHH!?]

And just to round things off, one of my most recent attempts to be super-clever and improve our Google rankings has severely back-fired so our website is dead in the water, floating belly-up and drifting towards the rocks. So, I'm not at all happy. And I'm cold. And I'm hungry. I also eat when I'm stressed or unhappy, so time to go kill two birds with one stone.

I do hope my first post isn't a sign of posts to come...that would be sad.

Just had a huge lunch and feel much, much better.

Added to that, Andy, our Web Angel www.andyprice.me.uk, managed to untangle the knot I had made of our website and got everything back and on track. So the world seems a little calmer again.

Add to that the sun is beating down on us in a very Spring-like fashion, and I can surely say that I am ready for the next crisis.

Bring it on.